5 Phrases To Inspire You When You Feel That Your Life Is Going Wrong

We all like phrases that seem made to inspire you when you feel like your life is going wrong. There are even those of us who “collect” them because we know that, sooner or later, we will need them.

With that in mind, we have prepared some phrases . We know that We all, at some point, feel that life is going wrong, but we also know that this is only momentary.

However, that assurance is not always enough to smile when it is most needed.

Read these phrases and take them with you. They are sure to help you see your circumstances in a better way.

1. “Be nice when possible. It is always possible ”- Dalai Lama

How many times has it happened to you that you feel that your life is going wrong and you take it out on whoever gets in your way? The result is sure to be that everything gets worse.

And of course, how could it not be like this? Remember that what you think is what you attract .

Now, if you broke up with your partner today and the job goes bad, give yourself the opportunity to find the time to be nice to others. It is not because of them, but because of you.

Human beings react based on how they make us feel.

This means that if you are nice to others, they will be more willing to help you out.

2. “You will get everything you want in life if you help others to achieve what they want” – Zig Ziglar

Many of us have been brought up with the idea that you should work towards your own goals without giving too much importance to others.

However, it is becoming increasingly clear that to the extent that you help others, you see yourself benefited.

If today you feel that your life is going wrong, stop for a moment and analyze if you are helping others and how. Perhaps the reason why you are not doing well is precisely that you are trying to take advantage and that is giving you the opposite result.

Helping others is sometimes as simple as asking what they need or what you can do for them.

Perhaps those financial problems that prevent you from paying the rent will be solved if you help a friend with something that is extremely easy for you and that he is willing to pay for.

In some cases you may not get a direct benefit, but think that if you help someone today, that person will feel so grateful that they will want to help you achieve your goals .

In the end, it is a snowball effect in which everyone benefits.

3. “Failure is an event, not a person” – Zig Ziglar

If today you feel that your life is going badly because you had a setback in some aspect and you are defining yourself as a “Failed”, stop now. It is true that being wrong hurts and nobody likes it.

However, failure  is part of life and must be accepted as a reality.

What you should never do is define yourself by it. If you failed today, stop to analyze your decisions and how they led you to that result. Then learn from it and try again knowing that that path doesn’t work.

4. “We must suffer one of two things: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret and disappointment.” – Jim Rohn

Why do you feel like your life is going bad? Do you think you are trying too hard and you don’t see results? Are you realizing that you have not done what you should and now the results are clearly not what you expected?

Jim Rohn already talks about this and makes it clear that or you strive for what you want until it hurts or you stay in the comfort zone and then you put up with the result .

Perhaps the feeling that today generates a great weight gives you the clue of how you should continue.

Take a couple of days and analyze your life. What have you done to get to where you are? Is that where you wanted to be? Was it worth it? Do you want to change?

You must understand that Every decision you make is going to hurt you in one way or another, because it involves some kind of sacrifice . Therefore, you must be clear about your goals and work towards them.

5. “You can’t save people. You can only love her ”- Anaïs Nin

How many times do you feel that your life is going badly because you try to push someone to be a better person? It has happened to all of us at some time, and there are those to whom it happens often.

It is possible that you are a person who does not tolerate seeing someone suffering and that you have so much love to give that you take the problems of others as your own.

That certainly makes you a great person, but it can also do you a lot of harm if you don’t learn to see that you can’t control people.

You should never take the problems of others as your own nor should you wait for others to change. They will do it only if they want to and not because you expect it.

If you want to help, stay by their side and support them when they ask, but don’t try to direct them, because it won’t help.

The most important thing is that, if at any point you feel like you can’t take it anymore, walk away. It’s healthy to be a little selfish when your respect and self-love are compromised.

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